LONG DISTANCE DD
How do you cope when you don't live with your partner or are sometimes separated due to work or other commitments? Does DD fall by the wayside, or do you find ways in which to maintain your connection?
Reading suggestions for the topic may be found here:
http://disciplinedfeminist.blogspot.co.uk/2007/02/ritual-and-little-help-with-long.html
http://www.thisthingwedo.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=12&t=861
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"I used to have a chore list, but it was
more for me than for him. (We don't at the moment and I'm feeling the
need again). A disordered and dirty house don't bother him at all, but
when I procrastinate and don't achieve, I find the lack of production to
be depressing and self demoralising. The longer I leave things and the
more overwhelming that things become, the more inadequate I feel.
Having DD style involvement and motivation from him makes me feel less
alone with the tasks at hand and more able to compartmentalise and
organise them into something manageable and 'bite-sized'.........."
"As many of you know, R and I were so distracted with hospice care for
my mother that we fell very far behind in our DD relationship. Now that
we are back on track due to a change in attitude and the use of
alternate locations, we are faced with a veritable backlog of offences.
Now normally R is very clear on keeping misbehaviors clearly
accounted for. Even at times in the past where a few issues had accrued
before we had a chance to execute a punishment, she would very clearly
administer a full separate spanking for each offense......."
"I came across the following link on another site
a couple of days ago but have
only just had time to read the article. Whilst many of you are unlikely
to experience the level of subspace described, one or two of you have
described being in subspace to some degree. I therefore thought this
article might be of general interest.............."
"As either a Top or sub, do you ever feel amused by either your sub's or
your own "spanking predicament".......i.e. an adult who for whatever
reason, placed themselves in punitive jeopardy and now must live with
the real consequences to that decision?..........."
"Recently a horrible interview was conducted that went insanely viral, spreading misleading and completely misguided information. The ignorance, intolerance and lack of research is disturbing. None of the so called "reporters" did any research and each one basically copy/pasted what the last one wrote instead of doing any investigation or reporting of their own...............................".
'So what about an HoH's needs?!'" In simplistic terms, she was actually being selfish by her insistence on looking after her Dom/Master whether he liked it or not.........
"The 1950s model household. Did it really exist?........................."
