Sunday, July 27, 2014

Come to Sunday Chat on 27th July in the "DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE CHAT ROOM"


COME TO SCHEDULED SUNDAY CHAT IN OUR 24/7/365 OFF-SITE 'CHATZY' ROOM: on Sunday 27th July, 2014. The topic of the week will begin at 7.00pm USA Eastern Standard Time.
Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

WORLD CHAT TIME CONVERTER

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This week snoozz will be bringing a fresh angle to the topic of

'RULES'

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To access the offsite 1DD Chat Room, simply click on the link below (or copy and paste it into your browser's address bar),

http://us10.chatzy.com/Domestic-Discipline-Chat"

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "4ddchat" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go!

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THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.
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Sunday, July 20, 2014

Come to Sunday Chat in the 'DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE CHAT ROOM' on 20th July.


COME TO SCHEDULED SUNDAY CHAT IN OUR 24/7/365 OFF-SITE 'CHATZY' ROOM: on Sunday 20th July, 2014. The topic of the week will begin at 7.00pm USA Eastern Standard Time.
Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

WORLD CHAT TIME CONVERTER

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This week I'll be asking a few questions, suggested by cjindy about

'SUBMISSION IN DD AND D/S RELATIONSHIPS'

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To access the offsite 1DD Chat Room, simply click on the link below (or copy and paste it into your browser's address bar),

http://us10.chatzy.com/Domestic-Discipline-Chat"

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "4ddchat" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go!

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THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.
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Sunday, July 13, 2014

Come to Sunday Chat in the DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE CHAT ROOM on 13th July


COME TO SCHEDULED SUNDAY CHAT IN OUR 24/7/365 OFF-SITE 'CHATZY' ROOM: on Sunday 13th July, 2014. The topic of the week will begin at 7.00pm USA Eastern Standard Time.
Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.

WORLD CHAT TIME CONVERTER

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This week I'll be asking a few questions about 'COMMUNICATION IN DD AND D/S RELATIONSHIPS'

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To access the offsite 1DD Chat Room, simply click on the link below (or copy and paste it into your browser's address bar),

http://us10.chatzy.com/Domestic-Discipline-Chat"

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "4ddchat" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go!

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THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.
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Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Trending Topics of the week on the 'D & L' forums

DD, D/s, M/s, Sex, and admitting you enjoy a combination.


Posted by Gorilla
 

 I thought I might throw this up for discussion and see where it takes us all.

I want to talk about DD, D/s, M/s, Sex, Hidden desires and why people struggle to come to terms with their needs and the ability to openly admit that they in fact have a need.

I find it quite intriguing and to a point amusing that a group of people can get together on a forum such as this and discuss spanking for discipline, the use of implements and some aspects of submission and dominance, most freely admitting that it is part and parcel of their sexuality. However the minute you mention that their need may go beyond just discipline the vast majority suddenly go quiet or shudder and respond with "ohh not me!".

Is the changing need that can develop from spanking for discipline, to purely and simply sexually motivated Dominance and submission including the pain associated to spanking etc any different to discovering the many other facets of sexual gratification.....................................(more on the 'D & L' forums, here...)



 Subconscious Submission. (Sunday 29th June Chat)
 Posted by Gorilla


First of all I would like to thank Leah for hosting chat. It was a very interesting chat and most people seemed to be able to contribute.

Once again I was asked what exactly it is I mean by "subconscious submission"
It's hard to explain clearly in a chat room environment so I thought I would make the effort here.

To me it has nothing whatsoever to do with your choice of dynamic or specifics of your dynamic.

It's a basic development of growth within a relationship involving submission and dominance.

A lot of people start out with rules and desires expressed by both parties within the relationship and that's fine, but eventually there should be growth and the ability to move beyond a list of rules. IMO.....................................(more on the 'D & L' forums, here...)



 JULY 6 CHAT QUESTION #1 
 Posted by AngelaH

What attracted you to the concept of DD in the first place?

Is it something you've always fantasized about, or was there something in your life or relationship that you felt could be helped or.....................(more on the 'D & L' forums, here...)



 JULY 6 CHAT QUESTION #2
 Posted by AngelaH 

Do you envision your DD as more "rules based" and about taking care of conflict and problems in the relationship, or do you have a different "ideal" in mind when you think of DD?.....................(more on the 'D & L' forums, here...)

 

JULY 6 CHAT QUESTION #3
 Posted by AngelaH 

Do you feel that Dominant/submissive interaction plays a part in DD, or is it entirely separate?

If you do feel it plays a part, how does that balance out for you, and how would you define the D/s element?.....................(more on the 'D & L' forums, here...)


 
JULY 6 CHAT QUESTION #4
 Posted by AngelaH 

As you have progressed in your DD relationship, have you found that the D/s element has become more natural and pronounced? If so, in what ways has that manifested itself?...................(more on the 'D & L' forums, here...)



 

JULY 6 CHAT QUESTION #5
 Posted by AngelaH 

If your DD has stayed mostly "rules based", do you find that it has improved your communication and brought you closer as a couple, in addition to simply resolving conflicts and keeping order?...................................(more on the 'D & L' forums, here...)

Sunday, July 6, 2014

Sunday DD chat on 6th July


COME TO SCHEDULED SUNDAY CHAT IN OUR 24/7/365 OFF-SITE 'CHATZY' ROOM: on Sunday 6th July, 2014. The topic of the week will begin at 7.00pm USA Eastern Standard Time.
Click on the link below to find the equivalent time in your area.
WORLD CHAT TIME CONVERTER


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This week I'll be asking a few questions about what attracted you to DD in the first place and what part if any, "rules based" DD plays in your relationship

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To access the offsite 1DD Chat Room, simply click on the link below (or copy and paste it into your browser's address bar),

http://us10.chatzy.com/Domestic-Discipline-Chat"

choose your name and colour, fill in password: "4ddchat" (EVERYONE USES THE SAME PASSWORD TO GET INTO CHAT) and click on "Enter Room". When the new Chat Room screen appears, click on "Join Chat" and you should be all ready to go!

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THERE IS NO REQUIREMENT OR EXPECTATION THAT WE WILL ALL AGREE ON EVERYTHING AND IT IS THE VARIETY OF EXPERIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING THAT MAKES OUR DISCUSSIONS INTERESTING AND PROFITABLE. HOWEVER WE DO ASK THAT PARTICIPANTS MAINTAIN CIVILITY AND CONSIDERATION FOR OTHERS WHEN CONDUCTING DISCUSSIONS IN THE CHAT ROOM.