Sunday, September 1, 2013

Forum Trending Topics and Sunday Chat Topic for 1st September




CHAT TOPIC SUGGESTION FOR SUNDAY 1ST SEPTEMBER:
 
"SPANKING A SPANKO?"

"It seems to me that when one actually enjoys being spanked, there isn't much incentive to do anything about cleaning up or doing what are considered your chores.What Nick ought to do is not give you a spanking when you don't clean up and give you a spanking when the place is spick and span.How can a spanking, no matter how severe it is, be any incentive to do anything when you enjoy the whole experience?........."

Reading suggestions for the topic may be found here:

http://www.disciplineandlove.com/viewtopic.php?f=10&t=6311





THIS WEEK'S FORUM TRENDING TOPICS
(To read and/or participate in the complete discussions on the forums, just click on the titles)


Handling the implement

"A few times, to seriously make a point, J has had me fetch an implement.

Oh my goodness is this ever effective.

One time, he had me get the hairbrush, hand it to him, then go sit on the end of the bed and think about what I did and how I'd prevent it from happening again........"

When it's hot....it's hot.

"For a variety of reasons, J and I practice periodic abstinence. When we are abstaining from being intimate, I've noticed he becomes incredibly dominant. This is when, by and large, we've had extraordinary steps in our relationship. He becomes more serious. I see that he is more serious! lol.  Even when I'm not punished (but spanked for other reasons), I find that we seem to progress somehow............"


  "I used to have a chore list, but it was more for me than for him. (We don't at the moment and I'm feeling the need again). A disordered and dirty house don't bother him at all, but when I procrastinate and don't achieve, I find the lack of production to be depressing and self demoralising. The longer I leave things and the more overwhelming that things become, the more inadequate I feel. Having DD style involvement and motivation from him makes me feel less alone with the tasks at hand and more able to compartmentalise and organise them into something manageable and 'bite-sized'.........."

Making me happy?

"Sunday my husband and I got into an argument. I understand being punished over it; but twice in one day for the same argument? But what is bothering me is my Hoh told me he needed to spank me to make me happy and put me in a good mood. It doesn't put me in a good mood just less argumentative. Any other people that spanking puts them in a good mood? I never thought of it like this........"

 


"It seems to me that when one actually enjoys being spanked, there isn't much incentive to do anything about cleaning up or doing what are considered your chores.What Nick ought to do is not give you a spanking when you don't clean up and give you a spanking when the place is spick and span.How can a spanking, no matter how severe it is, be any incentive to do anything when you enjoy the whole experience?........." 

A new tactic  

 "As many of you know, R and I were so distracted with hospice care for my mother that we fell very far behind in our DD relationship. Now that we are back on track due to a change in attitude and the use of alternate locations, we are faced with a veritable backlog of offences. Now normally R is very clear on keeping misbehaviors clearly accounted for. Even at times in the past where a few issues had accrued before we had a chance to execute a punishment, she would very clearly administer a full separate spanking for each offense......." 


"I came across the following link on another site
a couple of days ago but have only just had time to read the article. Whilst many of you are unlikely to experience the level of subspace described, one or two of you have described being in subspace to some degree. I therefore thought this article might be of general interest.............."




"As either a Top or sub, do you ever feel amused by either your sub's or your own "spanking predicament".......i.e. an adult who for whatever reason, placed themselves in punitive jeopardy and now must live with the real consequences to that decision?..........."


 'A Domestic Discipline Society: Defending Domestic Discipline'
 

 "Recently a horrible interview was conducted that went insanely viral, spreading misleading and completely misguided information. The ignorance, intolerance and lack of research is disturbing. None of the so called "reporters" did any research and each one basically copy/pasted what the last one wrote instead of doing any investigation or reporting of their own...............................". 


  'So what about an HoH's needs?!'

 
" In simplistic terms, she was actually being selfish by her insistence on looking after her Dom/Master whether he liked it or not.........


The good old days (or not?)

"The 1950s model household. Did it really exist?........................."


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