CHAT TOPIC SUGGESTION FOR SUNDAY 1ST SEPTEMBER:
"SPANKING A SPANKO?"
"It seems to me that when one actually enjoys being spanked, there isn't much incentive to do anything about cleaning up or doing what are considered your chores.What Nick ought to do is not give you a spanking when you don't clean up and give you a spanking when the place is spick and span.How can a spanking, no matter how severe it is, be any incentive to do anything when you enjoy the whole experience?........."
Reading suggestions for the topic may be found here:
http://www.disciplineandlove.com/viewtopic.php?f=10&t=6311
THIS WEEK'S FORUM TRENDING TOPICS
(To read and/or participate in the complete discussions on the forums, just click on the titles)
Handling the implement
"A few times, to seriously make a point, J has had me fetch an implement.
Oh my goodness is this ever effective.
One
time, he had me get the hairbrush, hand it to him, then go sit on the
end of the bed and think about what I did and how I'd prevent it from
happening again........"
When it's hot....it's hot.
"For a variety of reasons, J and I practice periodic abstinence. When we are abstaining from being intimate, I've noticed he becomes incredibly dominant. This is when, by and large, we've had extraordinary steps in our relationship. He becomes more serious. I see that he is more serious! lol. Even when I'm not punished (but spanked for other reasons), I find that we seem to progress somehow............"
"I used to have a chore list, but it was
more for me than for him. (We don't at the moment and I'm feeling the
need again). A disordered and dirty house don't bother him at all, but
when I procrastinate and don't achieve, I find the lack of production to
be depressing and self demoralising. The longer I leave things and the
more overwhelming that things become, the more inadequate I feel.
Having DD style involvement and motivation from him makes me feel less
alone with the tasks at hand and more able to compartmentalise and
organise them into something manageable and 'bite-sized'.........."
Making me happy?
"Sunday my husband and I got into an argument. I understand being punished over it; but twice in one day for the same argument? But what is bothering me is my Hoh told me he needed to spank me to make me happy and put me in a good mood. It doesn't put me in a good mood just less argumentative. Any other people that spanking puts them in a good mood? I never thought of it like this........"
"It seems to me that when one actually
enjoys being spanked, there isn't much incentive to do anything about
cleaning up or doing what are considered your chores.What Nick ought to
do is not give you a spanking when you don't clean up and give you a
spanking when the place is spick and span.How can a spanking, no matter
how severe it is, be any incentive to do anything when you enjoy the
whole experience?........."
A new tactic
"As many of you know, R and I were so distracted with hospice care for
my mother that we fell very far behind in our DD relationship. Now that
we are back on track due to a change in attitude and the use of
alternate locations, we are faced with a veritable backlog of offences.
Now normally R is very clear on keeping misbehaviors clearly
accounted for. Even at times in the past where a few issues had accrued
before we had a chance to execute a punishment, she would very clearly
administer a full separate spanking for each offense......."
"I came across the following link on another site
a couple of days ago but have
only just had time to read the article. Whilst many of you are unlikely
to experience the level of subspace described, one or two of you have
described being in subspace to some degree. I therefore thought this
article might be of general interest.............."
"As either a Top or sub, do you ever feel amused by either your sub's or
your own "spanking predicament".......i.e. an adult who for whatever
reason, placed themselves in punitive jeopardy and now must live with
the real consequences to that decision?..........."
"Recently a horrible interview was conducted that went insanely viral, spreading misleading and completely misguided information. The ignorance, intolerance and lack of research is disturbing. None of the so called "reporters" did any research and each one basically copy/pasted what the last one wrote instead of doing any investigation or reporting of their own...............................".
'So what about an HoH's needs?!'" In simplistic terms, she was actually being selfish by her insistence on looking after her Dom/Master whether he liked it or not.........
"The 1950s model household. Did it really exist?........................."
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